My Dad

This post is for him ... My Dad

Have you ever get insulted by your dad ?
Have you ever get scolded by your dad for no reason ?

My dad ... He is a big devil ... I guess you guys think im speaking rubbish ...
He is a very good actor ... can change face very fast ...

1 min angel to you ... the next min change face ...

The only time he is angel to you is when he is in good mood or ... he need money from me ...

He become devil when i dun follow his plan / his nonsense ... example when he knock my door .. he demand immediate reaction ... i just say wait and going to open the door ... he already shouting at me ... He ask me to move such a heavy stuff like refrigerator and when im thinking how to move it and help him to move ... he shouted at me ... say i stupid dunno how to move blah blah blah ...

Cool right to have such a Dad ...

He did not give me a single cent since after sec 4 ...
Even when in sec 3 - sec 4 ... he dun really give ....

The best ever tactics that he ever use and still using is ...
Borrow small sum of money bit by bit from me ...
Then ask me to record down ...
When he return me the money ...
The next day he will and most likely he will borrow money from me again ...

SO WHAT THE POINT OF RETURNING ME MONEY ? GEEzz

and if you dun lend him money ...

HE will bloody curse and scold ME ...

He IS a very demanding person ... want people to follow his way ...

JUST because im his son ... dosent mean i have to obey him 100% ... IDIOTIC

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Well lucky for me now i know how to control my emotion ... just let it be ... 1 ear in 1 ear out ...

Happiness is a state of mind that can be control by you ...

Sometimes i wonder am i like Him ... I do feel have a little like him ... especially the "hao Lian" which i use to be ... and im quite of a perfectionist or have my own style or you can say expectation when im in charge of certain thing ...

Yup ... I dun want to be like him aka bomb ...

Demand high expectation in work is good ...
but Not everybody is the same as me ... as some people are not as capable in term of certain works ... therefore ... people management come into play ... be patient, gentle, and treat different people accordingly to their style ...

=) happy always ...